Have you ever had to think carefully before making a judgment or decision?

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Asking "What am I missing?" can sharpen your mind and increase your confidence in your choices. It's more than a question — it's a process that can improve your critical thinking skills. 

What are critical thinking skills? 💭

Critical thinking skills are "self-directed, self-disciplined, self-monitored, and self-corrective thinking."

It is about looking at things carefully and asking the right questions, helping you:

  • Understand information better.

  • Find blind spots.

  • Consider different perspectives.

  • Make better decisions.

How do you practice critical thinking skills? 📋

Let's practice "What am I missing?", a 5-step activity that helps you think critically and discover overlooked areas of your thinking.

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Whether you're solving a problem, planning a project, or analyzing a situation, this critical thinking skills activity:

  • Helps you see the bigger picture.

  • Leads to smarter decisions.

1. Choose the scenario 🎬

First, start by choosing a scenario to use for the "What am I missing?" activity.

Use the activity for situations that need careful evaluation. This is when there are multiple factors for decision-making, which requires critical thinking skills.

While critical thinking helps us find the most efficient solution, it does not have to be used in all situations.

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When you need critical thinking skills ✔️

  • Choosing a college or career: Consider what you love, future job options, costs, and what’s best for your goals.

  • Managing your allowance: Decide how much to spend, save, and plan for things you want in the future.

  • Deciding which volunteer opportunity to join: Consider what cause matters to you, how much time you can commit, and what skills you can gain.

When DON'T need critical thinking skills ❌

  • Following a simple recipe: Follow the steps and let the recipe do the work.

  • Choosing an outfit for a regular day: Go with whatever feels comfy or matches your vibe.

  • Paying for a snack at a fixed price: No need to debate — pay and enjoy your snack.

Practice your critical thinking skills! 📝

Choose the situation below in which critical thinking skills are most needed.

A. Choosing whether to go to college or take a gap year.

B. Picking a random snack from the pantry to eat because you're hungry.

C. Choosing what to wear to school based on the weather forecast.

D. Deciding whether to go for a run outside or stay in and relax after a busy day.

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Choose your answer!

2. List what you know 📋

Once you picked the scenario, list the information you already know.

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This step helps you gather the facts you need before making a decision. Here is the checklist you can refer to when you list what you know:

  1. What is the decision about? 🔍

  2. What are my needs and goals? 🎯

  3. What are the pros & cons of this decision? ⚙️

  4. What is my budget or resources? 💰

  5. Are there any alternatives? 🔄

Example

Jane is deciding whether to attend college or take a gap year. She lists all the information she knows.

  1. The decision: Going to college now or taking a year off

  2. Needs and goals: Time to explore interests vs starting career sooner

  3. Pros & cons:

    (College) Pros: Start degree sooner vs. Cons:High costs

    (Gap year) Pros:Explore interests vs. Cons:Lose study habits

  4. Budget: $15,000

  5. Alternatives: Take online courses, work and study part-time

3. Dive deeper with “What am I missing?” 🤷

Review your list from step 2. Then ask yourself, "What am I missing?"

This is like hitting pause to think deeper and spot hidden details you might’ve skipped.

Ask yourself these questions:

  • What assumptions am I making? 🤔

  • What questions haven’t I asked yet? ❓

  • What information or perspectives might I be overlooking? 🔍

  • Are there gaps between what I know and what I need to know? 🧩

Get curious and challenge your first thoughts. By finding those missing pieces, you can make smarter choices and learn in a way that sticks with you!

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Example

Jane asks herself, "Should I attend college or take a gap year?" 🤷‍♀️

This is the list of what she knows:

  1. The decision: Going to college now or taking a year off

  2. Needs and goals: Time to explore interests vs starting career sooner

  3. Pros & cons:

    (College) Pros: Start degree sooner vs. Cons:High costs

    (Gap year) Pros:Explore interests vs. Cons:Lose study habits

  4. Budget: $15,000

  5. Alternatives: Take online courses, work and study part-time

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This is the list of questions she generated:

  • How will this choice affect my career options later?

  • Am I considering how my interests might change over time?

  • Am I considering how I’ll stay motivated during a gap year?

  • Are there unique opportunities available now that won’t be later?

4. Ask someone else 👥

Asking others can improve your critical thinking skills by giving you meaningful insight!

Here's how to do it:

  • Choose who to ask: Pick people who are well-informed about what you’re asking

  • Share effectively: Express your ideas easily for others to understand

  • Ask for constructive feedback: Be open to feedback, even if it feels surprising!

Check out this Byte to learn how to ask for feedback.

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Let's practice! 📝

Jane is deciding on whether to attend college or take a gap year. She asks herself, "Who should I ask for help?" 🤷‍♀️

Choose the best option below for Jane:

A. College advisor: Ask which colleges have the highest rankings.

B. Gap year mentor: Ask what travel destinations are most exciting.

C. Family member: Ask if they think college is a waste of time.

D. Recent graduate: Ask how their choice worked out and what they learned from it.

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Who should Jane should ask for help?

5. Reflect on Your Experience 🤔

Connect insights from steps 3 and 4 into actionable steps. This way you feel more confident that your decisions are well-rounded.

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You can think about...

  1. What new insights did you gain by asking, “What am I missing?” 💡

  2. How did input from others improve your understanding? 🤔

  3. What new steps will you take? 🏃‍♀️

  4. How can you apply this process to future challenges? 🔮

Take Action

Remember, uncovering blind spots makes you a stronger thinker.

Keep asking, “What am I missing?” and use input from others to sharpen your perspective!

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Use this checklist whenever you want to improve your critical thinking skills!

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